Take a slightly different perspective ...

Thanks to Tanmay Vora again
http://qaspire.com/2016/04/18/critical-competencies-for-effective-coaching-and-a-book-by-lisa-haneberg/

Sometimes you are in situations like this:

"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." -- Albert Einstein
Read more at: https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/albert_einstein_385842

And one possible answer can be asking systemic coaching questions like the following, give it a try!! https://clevermemo.com/blog/en/coaching-questions/

552 readers to go for reaching the next milestone, stay tuned :-)